a good woman is a blessing and a gift. she may be single now, but she will eventually find her person. a good woman is PROTECTED by GOD. she can't be denied or destroyed. she will manifest her biggest dreams and get back everything that was taken from her

I honestly don't wanna be strengthened by difficult situations and be tested anymore. I'm tired. I want soft experiences that teach me God's grace and gentleness towards me.

In this same world, there are men that will attend every antenatal appointment with you, will advocate for you during labor and be intentional dads when baby comes.

That kind of man is worth waiting for. Don’t settle. God still has sons.

Be cautious of time you spend explaining the pain you’re in to the people who caused it. They know. If they’re not apologizing for it, they’re planning on more of it. Seriously, they know.

If someone doesn't tell you about their beef with you, then continue as if there's no issue because it's an uncommunicated one-sided beef and you're not a mind reader. You got no time and energy for guessing games and entertaining people who can't communicate like adults.

Y’all wayyy too comfortable with disrespecting/mistreating people & just expecting them to “get over it” without even holding yourself accountable. Y’all mess up genuine people around you simply because your ego is too big to give a decent apology FOLLOWED BY corrective action

Be grateful that things didn’t work out. You were meant to learn from the experience, not change the toxic situation. Take the lessons with you, and stop feeling bad for walking away from something that offered emptiness. You deserve a life that fills you up, not drains you.

It’s unfortunate how many people feel like they have to prove they are good people when the driving force behind that shame is not because of things they’ve done but because of things that were done to them. This is the lasting impact of trauma to an innocent soul.

If you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. I’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. These are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.

I hate the misconception that introverts don’t talk. If you’re the right person, I’ll talk to you for hours. However, it’s incredibly difficult to find the right people, so for the most part, I stay quiet.

Introverts don't ghost people, but if they get tired of your shit, they disappear like they were never there. No arguments. No explanation. No nothing. Just long cold silence. You were priority, but you treated them like an option. Go home & cry.

Trauma makes you reach out to fix things you didn't break to please others and maintain one-sided draining relationships.

Healing makes you realize you deserve mutually beneficial relationships based on reciprocity, open communication, clear agreements, and strong boundaries.

I hate when people ask me “Why are you so quiet?” Because I am. That’s how I function. I don’t ask others “Why do you talk so much?” It’s rude.

Let them judge you. Let them misunderstand you. Let them gossip about you. Their opinions aren’t your problems. You stay kind, committed to love and free in your authenticity. No matter what they do or say, don’t you doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth. Just keep shining

I promise you, what's meant for you will feel natural, calm, clear, and connected, not forced, chaotic, confused, and attached. That's how you know.

Introverts need alone time. Lots and lots of alone time. To think about their life. To connect the dots. To make sense of it all. That's how they calm the chaos in their mind. But you won't get it.

All an introvert wants is to feel safe. In work. In relationships. In life. Any hint of uncertainty or instability can make them retreat back in their shells. Destroy everything they worked so hard to build. And go totally numb. Be kind. Make them feel safe.

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