Sassington, M.C. Most black men learn to lighten our voices and fake smiles to seem less threatening to society. It's tiring, but you grow accustomed to being fake after training yourself

....they have to talk about you. Because when they talk about themselves, nobody listens.

Not suicidal or anything, but nobody should give birth to me in the next life.

Do you agree with this?

If they wanted to, they would. You don't get to choose how people feel about you, let alone treat you. Simply take note and act accordingly. You'll spare yourself unnecessary disappointment and heartbreak.

One needs room to tap into their wholeness before sharing it with others who are equally whole 😌

TL asleep?

Sometimes I crave a love that’s intentional… Someone that will never make me question their intentions towards me, or how they feel about me. Someone that will go all out for me, just as much as I do for them.

some people naturally have the “therapist gene” as i call it. its a mixture of attracting people & getting ppl talking.

knowing what question to ask and when is truly an art. as is knowing when to just shut tf up.

Active Afrobeats artistes with the longest longevity:

Flavour - 20 years
P square - 20 years
Timaya - 15 years
Burna Boy - 11 years
Wizkid - 11 years
Davido - 10 years
Phyno - 10 yrs
Tiwa savage -10 yrs
Kizz Daniel-8 yrs
Rema & Fieboy 6 yrs

Who is missing on the list?

If yall expect me to be the same hue everyday of my life, I got news for you…and I’m not even lightskin. It baffles me that some of you have been Black your whole life and still don’t realize how cameras, lighting, sunlight, lack of sunlight, clothing reflection and hair color

the longer you hold things in, the more you end up resenting a person. animosity builds when you aren’t speaking your truth or when you feel unable to.

Facts!!!

The worst kind of conversations are with people who

1) Mistake being pedantic for being witty
2) Are passive-aggressive without irony
3) Fail to pick up on nonverbal cues.

Lord help you if you meet all 3 in 1.

MsMessy Is that the reason for the obsession? Explain because atp, I understand why *some* Black men hide their sexuality. It’s also not public info. We aren’t entitled to it unless we have a partnership with them that requires the knowledge.

I didn't think it ever crossed my mind that at some point I could ever tweet this but trust me the more you act like a hard guy around the one you love the more you give in without even knowing and am guilty as charged

Is it only me or does the to do list have more to do when you start to do , it’s like a never-ending viscous circle of tasks

Doors are opening. The wait wasn’t punishment, it was preparation. The Universe had to make you uncomfortable, otherwise you never would have moved.

when you start realizing so many people are emotionally wounded children in adult bodies, you stop taking so much sh*t personally.

Is it only me or does the to do list have more to do when you start to do , it’s like a never-ending viscous circle of tasks