It’s not that simple. People are not always able to meet us where we’re or reciprocate. Every situation is different (context) and such blanket statements are disingenuous at best.

I’ve had two divorces.

My understanding of love and commitment were all wrong.

Here are 3 facts about relationships I wish I had known sooner:

At what point does one take accountability and not blame their parents for their ratchet behaviour.

Law vs MORALITY - facts vs subjective feelings and judgements. What a conundrum… maybe.

Morality though is a public system that applies to all rational persons.

None. You guys tweet everyday and yet don’t know how privilege works. Privilege is located in the systemic relationship to power, we’re not playing on a level playing field. The most privileged person is a white male.

Rereading “A Thousand Splendid Suns” ~ Khaled Hosseini

42 in June.

It's always black people wanting some raceless dystopia instead of having some damn pride in our own race. Are we this hopeless?

The lingering effects of colonialism these ones

Sad😭

Unpopular opinion: Interracial relationships tend to be more about white people who have an attraction towards black people.

Yes- there are people who date anyone irrespective of race.

And, yes there are those who only exclusively only date outside their race.

A new partner will not erase the fact that you need to work on yourself. 🤷🏽

That would be great.

But the best way to heal our lineage is to not be dispossessed of land and economic resources. Many Black people still sit on the margins of society.

Those who come after us should inherit wealth not trauma and poverty.

True- and that applies to you too Gareth.

It sure is ☕️✨ billy chapata.

What are the odds of John passing these exams?

Life’s better when you make space for what you love 💪🏾🍃✨

We can give Dr Pandor her flowers without making assumptions about the ruling party as a whole. There are pockets of excellence even in the most dysfunctional organisations.

Leg day 👍🏾

The suggestion that profits are primarily for salarium as if businesses are philanthropic adventures is quite absurd. BUT this is what happens when people have been groomed into ways of their colonisers so much thag blatant exploitation and abuse becomes normal procedure.

I think this is how she expresses herself, it’s her demeanour, which some can find intimidating.

I’d hesitate to form an opinion about her character based on a short clip. As a general observation, some people aren’t aware of their body language and how stern they come across.

Fun fact: A lot of hair sold on the market is synthetic, real human hair is expensive.