Finally entered the phase where I know the advice that matters most is from people who I love and admire.

There is so much noise out there that strong mental boundaries are necessary if you want to stay focused.

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Having someone love you exactly as you are is a liberating gift.

You feel at home because you know you are safe in their presence.

Their acceptance of you unlocks a deep sense of rest that revitalizes your being.

It’s a total lie that relationships are supposed to be easy.

You have to learn how to love each other well while the relationship shines a mirror on the ways you each need to grow — this is a big challenge to accept.

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Love is all about learning. Understand your partner’s preferences, their emotional history, the trauma they are overcoming and their deepest goals — this will help you love better. You can’t read their mind but you can familiarize yourself with your partner’s emotional terrain.

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