Marrying into a good family is important for a woman but not as important as her marrying a man who can negate the influence of bad family members. So that even if they hate her, they know they have no power to make her life difficult because he won’t tolerate her mistreatment.
real friends know your triggers. your relationship partner does too. stop dealing with people who intentionally do things to trigger you and play victim as if they are unaware of why you gave your given reaction. they know exactly what they’re doing. stay away from them!
The best way to end something is to starve it. No reaction, just don’t feed it. That’s where the true power lies. Where attention goes, energy flows. And when energetic patterns are broken, new worlds emerge. Don't return negative energy. Remove yourself. Create a new algorithm.