I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to ur own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
My childhood trauma didn't make me stronger. It made me a people pleaser. It made me forgive way too much. It made me not speak when I'm supposed to. It made me an extreme empath.