I hate how people glorify 50 Shades of Grey as a face of BDSM just because it's popular. The trilogy leads to misconceptions about BDSM itself, since it portrays Christian Grey as a toxic rich man who loves to use women who look like his mother as his sexual object
I wonder if 50 Shades of Grey is for the next generation what 9 1/2 weeks was for me/mine. That old classic erotic movie with a reputation to break taboos and be oh so exciting and then turn out to be actually quite ... yeah, well, not living up to the expectation...